If you're calling my piece "click bait," please note that you didn't have to read past the first sentence to discover the headline was an intentional reg flag. As a matter of fact, I picked that idea up -- using words like "shocking" and "dangerous" -- from a YouTube video in which a gushing Jessica Wildfire fan discussed in detail Jessica's crafty tactics for getting looks and likes. I am sincerely curious about who this person really is and why it's so difficult to cross reference her/his writing or see credentials. I am who I say I am, and you can find my bylined work in dozens and dozens of places. I don't like reading phantoms.